I know this is the wrong section but id like your opinions?

i wouldn't care what color he is, regardless of what someone else thinks; it's your life....u go with who u feel in your heart...sounds like the second guy...and he might not be brad pitt, but if you fall in love with him, he might as well be, bc all you will see is the piece of your heart he has become....i would absolutely not date someone who didn't care about his kids....when i was younger and single i dated a guy i really liked until he brought his 18 mo son over for the evening; he was the cutest, sweetest, little boy and every time he tried to touch or do anything, the guy kept getting more and more impatient with him and ended up yelling at the poor baby quite a few times bc he lost his temper...poof, he was gone...i couldn't bear hearing/seeing him treat his kid like that....so i knew he wasn't someone i wanted to spend my life with.....and he was very attractive..LOL...until then, when he became very unattractive in my eyes